When we are working to reconcile a hurt relationship .. first and foremost .. we must remember .. ‘listen for the hurt’  .. that hurt that lies far beneath the complaint ..  far beneath the issue .. or .. even the anger that may be associated with problem .. after all .. we already know there is an issue so maybe another approach is in order .. as we so well know .. ‘hurt people hurt people’ .. when we’re happy and healthy .. we don’t hurt others .. it’s when we are hurting that we find ourselves either lashing out at each other .. or .. curled up in a ball totally distant and immobilized ..  so friends what we must remember is simple .. we  all want and deserve respect  .. for .. it’s when we you treat people with dignity .. that we will see the anger dissipate quickly .. respect is always required on our part .. for all mankind .. and the best way to do this is to simply .. LISTEN .. to look beneath the words they are saying and see the hurt they are expressing ..  God gave us two ears and one mouth ..  haha .. twice to listen .. with less to speak .. always staying mindful that we are seeking to understand rather than seeking to be understood and that we are .. never missing the opportunity  to show respect by listening to someone when they hurt … for it is then .. reconciliation can truly begin .. oh yeah ..  Love Wins Period

“There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens ..  a time to be born and a time to die ..  a time to plant and a time to uproot .. a time to kill and a time to heal .. a time to tear down and a time to build .. a time to weep and a time to laugh .. a time to mourn and a time to dance ..  a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them .. a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing .. a time to search and a time to give up .. a time to keep and a time to throw away .. a time to tear and a time to mend .. a time to be silent and a time to speak .. a time to love and a time to hate .. a time for war and a time for peace”


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